Presenting or exchanging gifts is a sign of respect and mutual understanding during cross-cultural engagements. Gift-giving is a separate exchange from an honorarium and is usually done after the event or presentation is complete. It should be noted that gift-giving from Indigenous perspectives has different meanings compared to Western perspectives. In the Western worldview, it is seen as a transaction, obligation, payback, or mandatory act, whereas from an Indigenous point of view, it is seen as a sign of respect, kinship, and responsibility. When an organization participates in gift-giving, they are engaging in a kinship that extends beyond the presentation or event. A relationship that extends after the contractual obligation is to be expected. The form of the gift is determined by the organizer; however, the act of gift-giving welcomes one into the organization’s environment.
Appropriate Gifts:
A gift given with thought and care further extends kinship. It is important to consult and liaise with local and regional Indigenous community members to identify an appropriate gift to ensure it is respectful and will not offend the recipient. If one is not available, research who the gift is for. Where are they from? Do they have a clan? Is there an Indigenous artist or business within their own community? Is there something from your own community that you can gift? Common gifts include artwork, books, food, kitchenware, blankets, and medicines. It is recommended that when purchasing an art piece that it is authentically Indigenous made. (Note: It is not recommended to gift alcohol as it may be taken offensively. Historically, the exchange of alcohol has been problematic, and some communities have zero alcohol policies.)
Exchanging Tobacco:
It is sometimes recommended to exchange tobacco as a sign of respect; however, it is not a culturally relevant practice for all Indigenous nations and communities. It should be noted that Inuit do not use tobacco, so research should be done beforehand to know what to exchange. When appropriate, it is recommended to present tobacco when a ceremony is involved, such as smudging.
It’s best to use traditional tobacco (not for commercial smoking use) that has been gifted or purchased from an Indigenous community or business. Many online retailers offer tobacco for the purpose of ceremony, and it is typically wrapped in a small square of fabric. If you have appropriate guidance, you could also purchase the fabric and tobacco separately and prepare your own bundles before an event or ceremony, making sure you impart your prayers or intentions inside each one.
Exchanging tobacco should be done in person before the event or presentation, usually when the Indigenous speaker or guest is first contacted or first arrives at the event. If possible, speak with your guest beforehand in case they are more comfortable with this exchange taking place in a private setting, or they want to do it as part of the event so they can use it as a teaching moment. When presenting tobacco, use your left hand to extend it forward and be mindful that the recipient is not obligated to accept the offer. Note: Exchanging tobacco and gift-giving are two separate practices.
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